Monday, February 23, 2015

Family Organization Center, Kid of the Day, and Family Store


I've been waiting to write this post for over a year... I've waited so long, because it was super important to me that everything I'm about to share was tried and true and actually worked for our family. I'm happy to report that our "Family Command Center" has worked miracles for my kids and me. Being organized is a personal virtue that I strive to maintain. Organization is absolutely necessary when you are the mom of 4 kids and wife to a busy husband! Managing the schedules, menu, homework, papers, routines, goals, and chores is a huge job! I admit that I run a tight ship, but once the work is done, our kids still have plenty of time to play and just be kids. I'm also the first to admit that when we have visitors, or a snow day, or something unexpected, I'm the first to throw the routine to the wind, and just go with the flow! I do love being organized... (especially because I know how it feels to be completely unorganized-- my life used to be utter chaos, and my kids had no responsibilities. We all much happier when we know the expectations). Every family has certain ways of maintaining sanity, and here's what works for us!

(I really hope the green doesn't blind you... that color choice was an epic fail, darn it, haha)!


At quick glance, here's what's going on... 

Menu- I write the week's dinner meal plan
Calendar- to keep track of everyone's activities, appointments, birthdays, etc
Family Theme- a goal we set together at the start of the new school year
Bulletin Board- to hang reminders, party invitations, lunch menu, etc
Kid of the Day- this has saved my sanity!
Clip Boards- the kid's responsibilities





Here are more details about each of these...

Menu-
 Yay... everyone can quit asking me what's for dinner! "Just check the menu!" I plan out my menu on Sunday, then do all the main shopping on Monday, with a "pit stop" on Friday or Saturday. I'm the type that must have a cooking plan for the week, or we end up eating scraps. I also have a typed-out grocery list (I print it off every week, and just circle the items I need. I also keep my weekly menu plan hand-written on my grocery list for easy reference).

The way I plan my meals goes like this:
Sunday- Meat & Potatoes, or something ethnic (Hungarian, Russian, Asian), Dessert
Monday- Soup, Salad, or Seafood
Tuesday- Taco Tuesday
Wednesday- Breakfast
Thursday- Italian
Friday- Pizza
Saturday- Restaurant, Leftovers, or FYO (find your own)

Calendar-
 I keep a personal planner, so all the things written on our dry erase board are also written in my planner. But with so much going on, I needed to have a main place where everyone in the family can refer to plans, and add their own!

Family Theme-
 I got this idea from Stephanie at NieNie Dialogues years ago. She is a wonderful mother and inspires me in so many ways! At the beginning of a new year, we decide on a theme that we'd like to focus on as a family, and write it down. Maybe in a few years, I'll make them all into decorative printables! 

Bulletin Board-
In our next house, this needs to be bigger. This space is mainly for anything related to the kids; school lunch menu, birthday party invites, spelling words, etc. It isn't very pretty, but I have found that if it's 'out of sight, its out of mind.' If the kids have something super important for me to remember, it needs to be on this board.

Kid of the Day-
 A few years ago, I was sitting in the waiting room at the pediatrician's office, reading Parenting Magazine. I read a small column written by a mom who invented "Kid of the Day" at her house. She used this system starting when her kids were toddlers, up until they were teenagers! It was like an ah-ha! moment for me, exactly what I needed to hear, and I felt very inspired to implement this immediately. At home, we had been dealing with the pettiest little arguments- who got to sit at the special dinner seat, who got to eat with the fancy spoon, who got to choose the first bedtime story, who got the longest snuggle at night, and on and on. Most of the time, I had no good answer for who got to be first or who deserved the most special treatment. I try hard to treat all the kids the same, but some nights, I just didn't have the energy to snuggle every single kid. (We had three at the time, all two years apart. Now we have four kids)!

You can probably see where this is going... I introduced "Kid of the Day" to my kids, and it has honestly worked wonders. It just rotates day after day. The Kid of the Day gets the special treatment, whatever that may be. This has alleviated so much nonsense, arguing, and stress! It's great to let one kid feel a little extra special for a day. The other kids understand that if its not their day, then they get to be "happy" for the special kid. If an argument begins, all we have to say is, "So-and-so is Kid of the Day," and it puts all objections to a stop right away. 

I try not to use this as a behavior method. I feel like each child needs to be included in the rotation on a regular basis. There have been a few times when one of the kids lost the privilege of being Kid of the Day, but that honestly makes me sad, so I try not to revert to that. 

These days, Kid of the Day comes in handy for ipad privileges, helping me cook dinner, and the nightly massage and snuggle. (If I didn't have some system in place, they'd all argue over who gets my ipad, I'd have 3 little helpers underfoot in the kitchen every night, and I'd be up until midnight snuggling each kid! This way, I at least get a little bit of one-on-one time with each kid, without feeling guilty for not having the time to do this each night with each kid). 

Anyway, its a great little system, and I love that it evolves with the needs of family. Give it a try if you think it could help your family!

As far as keeping track of who is "Kid of the Day," I made a chart to hang on the wall with our Family Command Center. To make it, I found a rectangular shaped frame. Then I went to Home Depot and bought a magnetic piece of metal. I removed the glass from the frame and used it as a template to cut a piece of metal with metal cutters. Then I replaced the glass with the metal in the frame. I hung a wallet sized picture of each kid on the metal. Then, because I am a seamstress, and I wanted a touch of handmade somewhere on my wall, I decided to embroider the words "Kid of the Day" onto a piece of linen, backed with interfacing. Then, like a tiny little pillow, I sewed on a backing, and stuffed it with batting. Before I stitched it shut, I slipped in a small magnet, which works perfectly for rotating each kid on the "Kid of the Day" board.

I drew a few for practice...

Clip Board Jobs-
As far as the kid's jobs go, this could be a whole separate blog post, but I'm running out of steam typing this all out, haha. I spent a few DAYS creating these charts in Word. I personalize them according to each of the kid's needs. I didn't feel it necessary to write out morning routine since its fairly easy, and the kids have me ramming down their throats serving as their reminder. But their after-school routines are very important to me, and I'm very happy that they are each learning good habits and successfully contributing in our home. 

For each job, the kid either gives her/himself a CHECK (done) or an X (undone). Sometimes, we have exceptions, and on those days, they write a LINE. (For example, we decided to eat out, so there weren't any dinner chores that night. A line counts neither for or against them). See more Family Store below, for an explanation of the bottom of this chart, and how we do allowance.


For my kids who need help with reading, I found clip-art pictures to insert in the chart. It describes what the job is, and they can help themselves without me having to stand over their shoulder reading off every single job. One improvement I've made to this Job Chart since I photographed it, is that I have made each day have a different color of ink. (Just in the row where the Days are typed). That way, I can tell them that today is the "blue day," and they can follow the column to fill out their chart on their own.

Here is a link on Google Docs if you'd like to access my Job Chart. Hopefully you'll be able to save a copy, and then you can personalize it the way you want for your own kids!


Family Store-
Back to talking about the Family Store... when I was a newly-wed, I looked up to a young mother who ran a family store, but I never thought to ask her the details about it. So I racked my brains to come up with something that I knew would work for my family. In my efforts to teach our kids about responsibilities, I also want to teach them about money. One night, I literally laid awake in bed half the night, as ideas kept flooding my mind on how to set up our family store, and how to manage the "bank."  I honestly believe that this system is inspired and was an answer to my prayers on how to manage and teach my children. The math is simple. The rewards totally work for each of our kids, in surprisingly different ways.

The reason I believe in allowance, is because I feel that my kids need the opportunity to make financial decisions.

Here's how it works:
Each Monday evening, we hold a special Family Night. At the end, we do the Family Store to tally up all the charts and pay allowance. The kids count all the CHECKS they earned, and multiply that number by 10. They count all the Xs and multiply that number by 10. They subtract the X total from the CHECK total, to come up with the TOTAL amount earned for the week. (They see how those Xs can really deduct from their total earned amount, which has really motivated them to get their jobs all done)! So, once the total amount of allowance is recorded, I physically pay them the total in cash. From there, we calculate 10% to charity, 40% to savings, and 50% to spending. Each kid has a piggy bank with 3 sections to organize their money. Once a month, they empty out the tithing and take it to church. Periodically, we deposit their saving money into their real savings accounts at the bank. The spending cash is theirs, and they can do whatever they want with it. Some of our kids spend it immediately on smaller ticket items, and others have saved up for larger purchases. It's a lesson in immediate gratification vs. patiently and wisely saving. (Our 8 year old daughter saved all her spending money last summer, to earn a set of golf clubs. Once her Grandpa heard about this, he said that we would pay for half once she had earned her half. It was such a special lesson for her)!

I keep the Family Store in our basement. It is comprised of 3 bins...
1- Where I keep all the money. All the coins and bills are organized in separate, labeled ziploc bags. I only keep about $50 total in the bank at a time. It recycles itself when the kids purchase items out of the store, so it lasts quite a long time. I used to have fake money, until I realized that the kids took it more seriously with real money, plus they can actually take their money to church or a real store and spend it, which is also a great learning opportunity.
2- Where I keep smaller items, usually very cheap items from the $1 section at Target.
3- Where I keep bigger items.

Occasionally when I'm at the store, one of the kids sees a toy they really want. Instead of saying NO all the time, sometimes its nice to be able to say YES. When I do, I say "Yes, I will buy this and save it for you in the family store. You can save your money and earn it." Sometimes I also let them save their money and earn an actual trip to the store, instead of only being able to buy from the family store.

For now, ten represents $.10, meaning that each check earns them a dime, and each X causes them to lose a dome. Perhaps in the future, we'll increase the earning potential up to a quarter, but right now a dime is all that works for our budget. This translates to each kid earning on average $5 a week.

My List-
In case you don't think I'm organized enough (hehe), here's something else I thought I'd share. It's my personal list, my saving grace. It's inspired by my mom, who also swears by a daily checklist. I won't go into all the details, because I've personalized this for myself, but it really helps me stay on top of my game. I prioritize my Good, Better, Best. I no longer feel like a chicken running around with my head chopped off. I have focus and direction. Important to note... I don't think there's ever been a day when I checked every single thing off my list, but hey, at least I try!


I also have a list for grocery shopping, a monthly to-do list, an annual to-do list, a budget spreadsheet, a vacation packing list, a food storage list, a list of longterm projects, a blogging calendar, an important date list, and yeah... now I'm just embarrassing myself. :)

Kid's Baskets-
The last thing I'm throwing into this post is how I organize my kid's school papers, projects, drawings, cards, certificates, etc. I throw out a lot, but the things I want to save get put in here. At the end of every school year, I empty the basket and hole punch everything. I put it in a simple notebook, labeled with their name, age, school year, and grade. It's a really simple scrapbook.


The scrapbooks look something like this (not a very special photo- just keepin it real, haha). I make some for myself as well.


Don't ask me how I organize my family photos. This is the department that is STRESSING me out like crazy! All my photos are saved on my computer, and I've never done anything with them. This will be a priority soon, and I've got some great ideas up my sleeve...

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Well, you made it to the end of my craziness. I'm slightly embarrassed by how crazy I must sound. But I only share because these systems have literally changed my life, and I'm hoping they can inspire you with some new ideas. If you read this, I would honestly LOVE to hear your thoughts about it in the comments!!! I'd also love to hear any inspirations you've had, or your own ideas and systems. I would love to learn something from YOU!

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Edited to Add:
I thought I'd share a few of my favorite products that help us at home. I took several trips to Target and Hobby Lobby to buy items for my wall (and then to return some that didn't work). I found my favorites on Amazon. 

Hands down the most helpful thing are the banks that my kids use. We have these...

But I have had my eye on these. I love them because they have 4 compartments that actually would work better for our needs. There's a place to save their spending money, or to spend their spending money, donate (such as tithing), and invest (save for college).



I love these chalk markers to use on my chalkboard menu.


This is the dry erase calendar that I have.


Metal cutters (that I used for my Kid of the Day board. They cut through sheet metal like butter).


These are the mesh metal file holders that I use for the kid's papers.


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Friday, February 13, 2015

How to Sew a Dresden Plate

There is more than one way to sew a Dresden Plate, just like there is more than one way to eat a Reese's. But after making 5 of these blocks recently, I have a method that works best for me. Maybe you'd like a few tips?


Before we get started, be sure to study up on your quilting history about the Dresden Plate

"The popular name for this quilt, Dresden Plate, reflects the romance of the Victorian Era with its love of elaborate decoration on household items and d├ęcor. Dresden, Germany was a center of 19th century romanticism movement in art, one that included the fine decoration of porcelain. The plates were embellished with elaborate design using flowers, fruits and foliage. The beautiful plates would surely have been admired by women of the early 20th century."

I LOVE learning about quilt blocks-- when, where and how they originated. It makes me appreciate them so much more as I sew. There are many modern patternmakers, but I have a sense that the quiltmakers who lived so long ago really set the foundation. It's a heritage I am so glad to be part of.


You don't need much to get started (beside a sewing machine, iron and scissors)... just some fabric, a small bit of fusible interfacing, a point turner, and a template. You could create your own template, or purchase a ready-made acrylic one. I have this Dresden Plate Template.

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Now it's time to decide what size you want your Dresden Plate to be. The one that I made in this tutorial is about 9 inches in diameter. It displays nicely in an 11x8.5 frame. To make this size, I cut my blades, or petals, at 3.5 inches tall. I used 18 blades total.


You can see that the final size of a sewn blade with be 1/2" less than the original size that it was cut. To calculate the final diameter of the entire Dresden Plate, you'll need to account for the empty space in the middle of the circle, which will be filled in with a circular pattern piece.

Once all the blades are cut, its time to decide if you'd like them to be pointed or curved. I love the pointed look, so we'll be using that method.

First, take the top edge, which is the longest edge, and fold together RST (right sides together). Sew a 1/4 inch seam allowance. This sounds tedious, but I backstitch at the beginning and end.

Then, carefully snip the corner that is closest to the fold of the fabric. Don't snip through the stitches.

Now, lay it out flat and press the seam open.

Then, use a point turner to flip the seam so right sides of the fabric are facing out. Make the point nice and pointy. :)

Once all the blades ready, then its time to arrange them. I try to put the same colors opposite each other in the circle, especially for the bolder colors. For example, the navy blues are each in a quadrant opposite each other. This will give your Dresden balance and movement.

Now its time to sew. Many quilters will tell you to divide the blades into 4 sections, and sew each quadrant together. Then finish by sewing each quadrant together. I have tried it that way. I've also just sewn each blade together, one at a time in order, all the way around the circle. I have found that it really doesn't make a huge difference- at least with 3 inch blades. As long as you take care to make the bottom of each point line up with the next, it should work just fine. When sewing the blades together, I don't use pins. I just lay them RST, and sew with a 1/4 inch seam allowance, backstitching at beginning and end.

Then, I take it to the iron and press each seam open. Once that's done, trim all the threads. Give the entire Dresden a good starch and pressing.

Now it's time to create the center circle. First, fuse a piece of fusible interfacing to the wrong side of the circle fabric. Measure the diameter of the empty space of your Dresden, then add a 1/2 inch to ensure all the raw edges will get covered. Using a circular object, trace a circle and cut it out. (Obviously, my matroyska dolls are not too happy about being decapitated)! 

If you are sewing the Dresden onto a background piece of fabric, get that cut, pressed, and ready. Pin the Dresden to the background fabric. Then, sew the circle directly onto the Dresden Plate. I have tried many ways- reverse needle applique, machine turned applique, and a simple blanket stitch right over the raw edge. I much prefer using the blanket stitch on my machine. If your machine doesn't have a blanket stitch, you can also use a small zig zag stitch. Take a small backstitch at the beginning and end.

Once the circle is stitched in place, its time to stitch down the entire Dresden. I set my machine in the "needle down" position. I use a guide to get as close the the edge as I can, and start sewing, pivoting at the bottom and top of each point.

Here's a closer look at how the blanket stitch looks when stitching down the circle.

I LOVE making quilt blocks to frame or just as a mini quilt. You could also add these Dresdens as patches on clothing, bags, and pouches. And of course, you could also make a huge quilt of them! This would also be gorgeous with a bit of hand-quilting on the perimeter of the circle.

I gave this to my mother-in-law for Christmas. I hope you enjoyed this tutorial! All the fabrics are various prints from several collections designed by Bonnie and Camille for Moda.

Tuesday, February 3, 2015

Nautical Felt Decorations {Tutorial}

Around Christmas, I started thinking of a few gifts I wanted to sew. I knew I wanted to make something for my dear friend Ashley who moved away last year, because I miss hanging out with her so much! She loves nautical things (she's got great taste). My mind went back to a picture I saw a picture on Pinterest a while ago; ornaments similar to these. They weren't for sale or anywhere to be obtained, so I made my own. I added a few of my own designs to create 5 nautical ornaments.


These ornaments are made from felt. Felt has become one of my FAVORITE textiles to work with. I love cutting small shapes out of the felt and outlining them in my favorite Valdani thread. Felt is so nice because it doesn't fray and you don't need to worry about finishing off the raw edges. I also love felt projects because they are small, and I can take them with me while I travel or run errands. My daughters love stitching along side me, making little doll pillows and such.


Felt comes in many varieties... the cheap craft felt, a nicer rayon/wool blend, or my favorite which is 100% wool. This wool is sturdy, and has a soft, creamy hand to it. My good friend Mary Dugan just opened up an online fabric shop called Sunny Day Supply (stay tuned for more details and her grand opening), and she carries loads of exciting colors in 100% wool felt. I'm convinced she carries these just for me! Haha, just kidding. But you might want to order some before I clear out her entire inventory. I have several projects in mind... save some for me Mary! :) 


If you want to make these Nautical Decorations similar to these, here's what you'll need:
-Felt (I prefer 100% wool)
-Small trimming scissors
-Thread (I prefer Valdani size 8, sometimes size 12)
-Hand sewing needle
-Stuffing
-Trims (for hanging the ornament)

INSTRUCTIONS:
1. Mostly, I just started snipping away at my felt. I made a starfish, a whale, an anchor, a shell, and a sailboat. I practiced a few templates on a napkin. The starfish was tricky. Just have confidence; it's okay to get a little scissor happy!!!

2. Next, I used a cup to trace and cut circles. I made 2 circlers per ornament. It was fun deciding which colors to coordinate with the background circles. Pictured here are the trims that I used to hang the ornaments- a bit of rope and some burlap ric rac.

3. Time to start stitching! I just took very small stitches around the perimeter of each shape. I like to pull my thread all the way up and all the way down. I don't use a piece much longer than the length of my forearm. It tends to get fuzzy the more it is pulled. That means you'll be getting a new piece of thread more often, and tying more knots, but I like my thread to be in good shape.

4. I decorated a few of my felt shapes with contrasting thread (added eyes and a spout to the whale, and some monochromatic stitching to the shell to give it texture). Then I used a simple running stitch to sew the back circle to the ornament. I left a small opening, stuffed it with a bit of batting, then finished stitching it shut.

5. Last, I sewed the trimming on the back with just a few stitches, to create a way to hang the ornaments.

6. These can be used on the Christmas tree, but really they can be used year round to add a little pop of nautical decor!

Everything arrived safe and sound to Ashley's house. I included this great book, 318 Patchwork Patterns. It was released a few years ago in Japanese, but has just been rereleased in English in limited editions. It was a super popular book, so I was excited to get my hands on a couple of copies (that I can understand, haha)!

I made the ornaments to go along with the Anchor that I gave to her for her birthday.

Just a few days ago, this amazing pickeldish mini quilt showed up in my mailbox, made by Ashley. I was just in awe!!! She chose the perfect colors, including some special prints from her Liberty stash. I just love the pickledish block. I honestly can't believe this belongs to me now, and that she could ever part with it. It will be front and center in my sewing room as soon as I move. I love it and her! Read more about this amazing mini quilt on her blog here.

What crafty projects are you working on lately?

Friday, January 16, 2015

Handmade Christmas Gifts 2014

The holidays were a busy, and completely wonderful time for my family this year, and I am STILL recovering! The weeks leading up to Christmas were filled with lots of sewing and I loved it. I'm excited to finally share some photos!

Let's start with this amazing gift... I was taken by complete surprise when my sweet friend Mary of Molly Flanders, Maker of all things Quilty Good, gifted this quilt to me. I had watched it come together over on her instagram account, and I instantly loved it! I had NO idea that was for me! Mary really has a talent for making someone feel special. 

I have to share a few up close details. Mary is my idol when it comes to hand quilting. Look at all those amazing, perfectly stitched red lines! And look closely at all the small rectangles that she pieced. She put so much work and thought into this quilt. (Also, the adorable plate... Mary knows I have a love of all things "frenchie." She found this at Anthropologie. It will be so cute paired with the little clamshell mug rug that I made for Santa's cookies).

She included a few texty fabrics which I love, to give it that perfect scarlet and gray feel, "a nod to our OSU buckeyes," she says. The heart will always remind me of how much I love her! It is to represent Ohio, which is shaped like a heart and we happen to live right in the middle of the state. The slogan is- "Ohio, the heart of it all." I have a really good feeling that this special quilt will not be packed away with all my Christmas decorations. It will have a very special place up on my wall, so I can look at it all year round! Mary shares more details about it here.

I was glad I didn't come empty handed, although nothing could ever top the sweet gift from Mary. It's funny that we both made something for each other that reminded us of the great state of Ohio. I made this ornament for her, which is a cardinal, the state bird of Ohio. 


I used 100% wool felt (which will be available from Sunny Day Supply, Mary's amazing fabric shop, very soon). I also used Aurifil 50 wt for the tree details, and Valdani size 8 for the bird and blanket stitch.

I also came with a few of my favorite Christmas cookies, recipes here and here.


Another gift I stitched was for my friend Ashley. I love having stitching friends to sew for! Ash loves nautical things (she has great taste). So I used a neutral color palette to create these ornaments for her, so they can also be used as decorations other than the tree. More details on these coming soon!

Edited to add:
Just a few days ago, this amazing pickeldish mini quilt showed up in my mailbox. I honestly feel like I've hit the jackpot with amazing quilty friends! This was made by Ashley from Mommy by Day Crafter by Night. She chose the perfect colors, including some special prints from her Liberty stash. I just love the pickledish block, in fact I have a quilt in the making, and she's motivated me to get back to working on it soon!

This picture is from her blog. I am so touched by this gorgeous block. If ever there was a talented quilter, Ashely is it! I absolutely cannot wait to hang this on my wall! Read more about this amazing mini quilt on her blog here.


I had made a few dresden blocks for the ladies in my Bonnie and Camille sewing bee, and cut a few extras to make a gift for my mother-in-law. She recently redecorated her craft room, and I was hoping to add a little something to go on her wall. More details on this coming soon.

I also got a crazy idea to sew skirts for my 4 sisters. I fell in love with this easy maxi skirt that I sewed this summer, and wanted my sisters to have one too. 

My little guy stayed up late with me a few nights, as I was scrambling to finish these at my parent's house. 

It was a great Christmas. One of the very best parts was that my little sis came home from Paraguay! She had been living there for the last year and a half while on an LDS mission, learning the language and serving the people. She had an amazing experience. She brought back some very beautiful handcrafted gifts. The embroidery that you see here is called nanduti. From what I understand, after the embroidery is finished, the creator dips it in the water that they use after cooking rice. The leftover starch gives the embroidery a nice, stiff finish.

That wraps up my gift giving post for the year. I hope your 2015 is off to a great start. My family and I have a big move coming up this summer. We are moving out to the country, and we actually found a house over the holidays, so I'm going to be pretty busy over the next few months with all that. I have a few sewing projects in mind, and I'm hoping to carve out a few quiet nights to work on them! You can always keep up with me over on instagram. And thank you so much for reading my blog :)